“Be yourself…..” Yeah…. we’ve heard that advice before. Some of us heard it enough times that it’s annoying and is beginning to lose it’s “meaning”. But here is the real question: are you being yourself? If you want to get technical, everybody on this planet is being themselves. Some people’s personality is all about imitation and they know nothing else while others are more focused on breaking the norm, so to speak. So the more appropriate advice is “Be an Individual who is Diverse, Inspiring, Open-minded, and Talented.” Yes, be an I.D.I.O.T.
I’m now 24 and I’ve experienced and learned quite a bit. Not as much as a 50 year old person, but that’s getting off subject. Thru my 24 years of being on this earth, I’ve learned that everyone really does have their own opinion and is usually not accepted by the same people (in some cases, hardly acceptable at all). Although it is easier said then done, we all need to come to the conclusion that this is true. Not everybody will like the idea that Obama is our President or that the Ku Klux Klan really does have a right to freedom of speech. Now, I’m not saying that we all should agree to have the same opinion, but we should remember that they are entitled to one. I am an African American male who believes that all blacks have no place in America……. <—- whether I am right or not does not make me an Individual but the fact that I have an opinion. What would make it better if I actually had a logical explanation for my opinion, thus making me more of an individual instead of a person who’s been taught what to think.
Again, I am an African American male. Most would assume that I am automatically interested in rap music, rims, clothes, and women with big buttocks (I couldn’t even keep a straight face while typing that). I’ll admit that all of those things are true about me, but I have a more broad list than that, actually. I enjoy all types of music. In fact, my interests would actually shock certain people. I don’t want to be the stereotypical black man that listens to nothing but black music (rap/hip-hop). Yes I like rims, but usually more for the look and tastes, not the size. I like clothes, but I’m not very materialistic with it. I don’t go out and get strictly nothing but Nike or Polo. I’ll admit that I wear clothes from Wal-Mart. I’m wearing so khaki cargo pants from there right now, actually. I really do believe that it’s the person that makes the clothes. Women? I love them! Even their rear-ends (lol, what’s wrong with me?)! But I also like one with a good mind b/c looks get you nowhere except the magazine, photoshoot, and porn flicks (let’s keep it real, folks). Folks should really try to be diverse and widen their interests and tastes in everything. Before you become picky, try other things b/c you just might find something else to be picky about.
You may not know this but you are probably being looked up to right now. It may be someone your age, someone older, or someone younger. Some people are probably watching you just to judge you or wish that something bad happen to you…… Most of you believe it’s option two. In either case, what do you do? Give them what they NEED, not what you want to do. Be the role model that people need to see. Show them that certain tribulations can actually be defeated. Give your “haters” a reason to respect you. Be that inspiration for somebody who is down on their luck that looks at you and says, “Well if he/she can do it, then so can I!”
Listen to everyone’s opinions and learn that they have one. Allow everyone to live their life. It may be different, but it is God’s creation. Let God’s creation have a mind of its own. Remember that they can possibly have a mind of their own and not someone else. In other words, some minds might think alike, they don’t have the same exact thoughts in the end. Your mind is a door that would be better if opened and not closed.
What truly makes you different from others? What can YOU bring to the table? There are certain things in this world that are slowly dieing down that are quite needed. Acknowledge your abilities and put them to good use. Admire your abilities because not everyone will. Admire those who have different yet interesting abilities. A lot of people with talents are slowly being ignored nowadays. The question is why? I believe it is because feel the need to ignore and discourage those people while we rather show attention to the less-deserving. So, why be an idiot when you can be an I.D.I.O.T.?